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My life as a heterosexual crossdresser.

Sunday Admin meeting at McMenamins Crystal Ballroom

On Sunday we are having an Administrator meeting for our group the Rose City T-Girls at McMenamins Crystal Ballroom downtown Portland. We have gone here many times for Wednesday night dinner and they really do have wonderful food and great appetizers. I really could make a meal out of their appetizers. My two favorites are their pretzels and cheese dipping sauce and of course their Scooby Snacks, (bitesize corndogs). I was dressed and on my way by 1 and got downtown by 1:20 and found a parking spot about 1 ½ blocks away, there were a lot of people out walking the streets today. I got out of my car with my purse and computer without even a second thought. I think back to when I was first going out and I would sit in my car and wait for as many people to go by and hopefully find a time when there was no one between me and where I wanted to go. We have a new girl in our group going through the same thing and I have been trying to reassure her it is not just her as we all went through this at one time or another. Now it uses to be you only paid for parking during the week on the street, then they started on Saturday and now even Sunday till 7pm. I probably should have just parked in the parking garage as the street parking will be about the same $ but they only have 2-hour parking so that will mean two trips out to feed the parking meter.

I got inside and they were a little busy but they have a big main room with 3 pool tables and 2 shuffle board table and then another big room with just tables so there was a lot of room turns out I was the first to arrive as Cassandra got caught in traffic and it took her an hour to get here. Now we found a big table as there would be 5 of us with computers and Cassandra brought an extension cord so we could all plug in if we went long. Melissa and Barb here just before 2 and Julie was a little later as she got caught in the same traffic Cassandra did. We all went up and ordered something to drink and appetizers and I was debating between which one I wanted but Cassandra made it easy as she ordered 2 of the pretzel and cheese dips for the table so I got and order of Scooby Snacks for the table.

Now Barb is a new Administrator for the group so we wanted to show her how to do things but also go over and refresh things for the rest of use so we are all doing things the same. Melissa has been managing our web page and by that, I mean setting it up and making updates and making it run right. The rest of us just update events, approve new members and post notices. If you like our web sites look it is all Melissa’s work and she has done a fantastic job, thanks Melissa. Now about 3:15 Cassandra and I had to walk out and put more money in the parking meters, Julie, Melissa and Barb were smart enough to park in the garage. Now today I wore my black skirt with my ankle boots with 3″ heels, it really is a cute look. As I got up from my chair, I rubbed my left calf on the chair and there was a rough spot and I ripped a hole in my nylons on my leg. It was small but I was not happy so the walk out to my car gave me a chance to calm down. I really hate when this happens. Now this area has a lot of drives coming out and the sidewalks are not level and I found it is a challenge to walk on them in heels.

Cassandra and I got back and now we were talking about our rules for the group and what we thought. Mainly approving people. We do require a face picture as we want to make sure who we are letting in. this sometimes is an issue as some girls do not want to post a picture, only members can see it and our thoughts are if you are a member and can see others pictures they should be able to see who you are so we are sticking with this rule. We also talked about admirers and this has always been a tuff topic and we spent a lot of time on this. In the end it all came down to what we all saw as the vision of out group. The groups focus is on helping girls come out and be comfortable in a social environment. Now we are all adults and understand that the trans community is somewhat sexual in nature but that is not the focus of the group. What members chose to do in their private lives is their choice but not what the group is about. In the end we decided not to allow admirers accept in maybe rare occasions. The other topic was face pictures, we require a face picture and sometimes we get those with male pictures. This is a little harder as some new members may not have a female picture and we don’t want to exclude them but then again, we are hoping they will come out so we will hopefully be able to get a female picture of them and they can post it. In the end what we really want is to help t-girls come out and enjoy this part of their life.

At 5:15 it was once more time for Cassandra and I to go out and feed the parking meter again and I got up carefully this time and swung my left leg clear of the chair ass to not catch it again. I probably should have changed chairs after the last time as when I pulled my right leg by the chair you know what happened. I caught the chair again and now I had a small hole on my right calf. I can’t believe I did that. Well now I did change chairs but at this point it doesn’t matter. This is something my male side never had to worry about.

Cassandra and I got back and we all ordered dinner and had a nice time. I got a burger so that is 2 days in a row having a hamburger for dinner but they are good. We all talked as we ate and had a wonderful time. It was such a wonderful day with my friends. It is still hard to believe we are at McMenamins as girls having a meeting about a web site we run. We have come so far over the last 10 to 12 years. Now we did have a couple people talk to us as there was a large group taking a tour and they were standing by our table and that was nice and we even had one lady who took the time to come over and tell us all how nice we looked. As she said we took time and put a lot of effort into how we looked and a lot of woman don’t do that, Her words not mine. She said she told her boyfriend you have no idea how much effort it takes to look pretty. We all thanked her and I think that really makes it all worth while when we go out. She didn’t have to come over but she did and that means a lot.

It was about 7 when we left, it really was a wonderful day. now driving home on a Sunday night, I was thinking about what I could do. I thought about going to Starbuck’s as the one I go to is open till 8:30 but it would be 7:45 when I would get there so I just went home as tomorrow I will be out as Susan and I am sure I will end up there for a while.

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May 28, 2019 Posted by | McMenamins, Out and about as Susan, Rose_City_T-Girls | , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Going to the Escape after a minor glitch.

It is Saturday, the last Saturday of May and Memorial Day Weekend. I wish to thank all our veterans Past, Present and future for all you have done and gave for our great country. It is because of you we live in the best country with the most freedoms. Any way being Saturday I really had nothing to do so my plan was to relax and watch some movies till 3pm when I would start getting ready so I could be to the Escape by 5, yes, I wanted to get there early. It is relaxing to get there and have tome to eat and play on my computer before others show up and get caught up on my blog as I seem to always be behind on posting them.

Well about 11 I was still my male self and decided to run to Fred Meyers as they have pop on sale for the holiday and it is just to good a price to miss. I got in my car and it barely started so I took about a 20-minute run up the freeway to charge my battery up before going to Fred Meyer. I came out and my car started up just a little pause so I figured I was good so I went home. well I don’t know why call it luck I decided to go check my car a little after 2 and once again it barely started so now, I am wondering about my battery. Me car is a little over 5 years old with the original battery so I drove down to Les Schwab to have them check it and it was a good thing. As I feared my battery was bad so I got a new one. Would have really sucked to be all ready and not be able to get my car started or worst be at the Escape and ready to come home and have a dead battery. Well this put me behind schedule as I didn’t get home till after 3:30 but I would be able to go out as Susan and that is what was important.

I got ready and it was a little after 5 when I left so, I got to the Escape about 5:30 and I actually got a parking spot right in front tonight. Now I had posted in the group I would be here bit no one else posted. I knew Bobbie would be here tonight as she had texted me but that night be it. I ordered dinner and wrote my blog from Wednesday night’s dinner. I really do have to try to get my blog posts done faster. Now almost immediately after getting here I got cold and for those who don’t know me well if I am cold it is cold, I am usually the last one to get cold. They really had the air conditioner going plus women’s clothes are not designed to keep you warm as you can see my bare shoulders and of course my heels were open toes. I made a comment to the bar staff and they turned it up a little and I soon got warm again

It was a little before 7 when Bobbie showed up, it has been several months since she has been out. We talked a little while and watched the end or the eastern Files in Basketball. I am not really an NBA fan especially since Portland is out. In a way it is funny as the only time I watch Football is as Susan, and 98% of the time I watch Basketball is as Susan. Probably the only sport I watch as my male self is Baseball and even then, it is still about 50/50

A little after 8 another girl showed up, she introduced herself as Wendy, it was nice to meet her. She said she saw in the group we would be here and came down to meet us. Now being a Holiday weekend, I am thinking it will be just us 3 till maybe 10 when I am pretty sure Lauri will show up as she is here pretty much every Saturday night. she came out to her family and is starting transition. Her kids and ex-wife are supportive. It was nice to talk with her and get to know her. A little side note on Sunday Cassandra asked me if Paula had made it to the Escape so I looked through our Members and I think she joined the group as Paula, the name she used years ago when she was in our old Yahoo group but I am thinking now that she s transitioning she has chose the name Wendy.

Karaoke started and it got loud. They relocated the speakers a few mons back and instead of being over in the corner it is now right on the wall above the tables so it is really loud. now there were some really good singers tonight as most nights. But it was really hard to talk once the singing started. Maybe it is my getting older but I just don’t like the loud music, it was so much better with the speakers in the corner. Now it was really busy by 9:30 and pretty much standing room only. The next table had a big party for a couple getting married tomorrow.

It was about 10 when Lauri showed up. It was great to see her again. She knows most or the people who come here as she is really good about socializing with everyone, something I still have trouble with. It is funny as I am way more outgoing as Susan then my male self but I still have trouble just going up to someone and starting a conversation without knowing them pretty well. Our group is so diverse in that area. We have a few girls that can go up to a complete stranger and start talking and in 5 minutes they are like best friends, Cassandra is awesome at this something I can’t do. I though can go out as Susan by myself shopping or to Starbucks and not give it another thought and other girls can’t. I think the group helps bring us all together so we can benefit from each other’s strengths. The friends I have made as Susan really have shaped who I am and really made my life complete. I can’t imagine what my life would be like without some of them.

It was about 11:30 when I paid my bill and said my goodbyes for the night. this weekend will be a good one as Sunday I am meeting Cassandra, Julie, Melissa and Barb at McMenamins Crystal Ballroom for an Admin meeting for our group the Rose City T-Girls at 2 pm and after we will have dinner. Monday being a holiday I don’t have to work and I plan some Susan time mid-morning to midafternoon so I will have 3 days of Susan. It was about midnight when I got home tonight, a little later then I planned but worth it.

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May 27, 2019 Posted by | Escape Bar & Grill | , , , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Wednesday night dinner at Swagat Indian Cuisine

It is Wednesday and we are doing dinner at Swagat Indian Cuisine, we ate here once before back in January after the place we were going was not open. They have really good food and treated us wonderful so we decided to go back tonight. Now I get off work later which makes it harder to make it to dinner but I get to sleep a little later in the morning. I got home at 5:30 so it was a rush to get ready so I won’t have the time to enjoy my getting ready but I will get to see my friends and that makes it special. Now as I know I have limited time I pick out my outfit the night before and I stick with it. I was ready by 6:15 and on my way which I figure is pretty good, from male to Susana in 45 minutes.

Now parking is not really easy in this part of town and I figured it would take some work to find a parking spot. Now as I got close a car pulled out right in front of me, they didn’t even look and I had to slam on my breaks and almost hit them, I was a little upset but then realized it left a parking spot right across the street from Swagat. I parked and walk in and Melissa was already there. Now we only had 4 of us post we would be here tonight. It wasn’t long and Julie and Barb showed up. I really do love getting together with my awesome friends. We talked a little about the Red Dress Part Julie, Trixie and I went to. It was so much fun. It really is hard to believe all the things I do as Susan as I can still remember how scared I was when I tried to go out. I really have come a long way the last 10 years with the help of my friends.

We finally ordered and kept talking, shortly after we ordered Sophia showed up. She was in the area for a class and it got canceled so she came and joined us. It was great to see her also so we had 5 of us tonight. A little smaller group but still fun and it gave us a good chance to talk as with a smaller group everyone is involved in the conversation. It is a hard balance, I really do like it when we get a lot of girls out and have a big turnout, the only problem is it is hard to talk with everyone and you can feel like you left some out. Our waiter tonight was awesome, he treated us incredible but then again the lady we had last time we were here was also awesome. I will say Portland in general is awesome, we pretty much go where ever we want and always get treated well.

After dinner we sat and talked for a while. It really was a wonderful evening out. It was sad to call it a night and say goodbye to my friends, they really are an important part of my life and who I am. Now when I got here it was nice so I left my coat in the car but now it was about 9:30 and a little cold and just a light rain. I was lucky as I was parked just across the street. I got to my car and started it and was waiting for a couple cars to go by when it really started raining hard, I hoped the other girls had made it to their cars before the rain really hit. The drive home was slow as it was really raining, but it was a wonderful night. Now I am looking forward to Saturday night when I get to go out again with my friends to the Escape.

I will get some good Susan time the next week or so. I am also going out on Sunday as we are having an administrator meeting for our group the Rose City T-girls on Sunday so I will see Barb, Melissa, Julie and Cassandra again. It starts at 2 so I am hoping after our meeting we will get dinner. I also have Monday off as it is Memorial Day so I am planning on getting out at least for a little while as Susan. Now I am not sure what I will do but I am thinking about going to the nail salon if they are open. When I got back from Diva Las Vegas I had my nails shortened and the acrylic thinned out on April 12th and I have had them that way since. I have had to file them shorter a couple times and my nails have grown out to where about the top 3rd of my nail is natural so it doesn’t look really good any more plus I am getting lifting. My original plan was to just let them grow out as the nail under the acrylic will be weak and break easy. So now I have to decide if I remove it and just have really weak, brittle and short nails till they grow all the way out or do I get acrylic on them again and have nice nails, if I do that it would mean going to the nail salon every 2 to 3 weeks for fills with I love but it is also $30 to $40 each time I go. I really do love getting my nails done and having nice pretty nails and yes if I could I would have nails like this all the time, my nails from my Diva Las Vegas vacation, how awesome would it be to have these all the time. I have a few days to think about it. I also have Tuesday June 4th off and that will also most likely be a Susan day, maybe a little shopping.

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May 25, 2019 Posted by | Dinner out, Out and about as Susan | 1 Comment

Red Dress Party in Portland 2019

It is Saturday May 18th and yes that means the Portland Red Dress Party. This will be my 5th year going and I am looking forward to it. Now I am going with Julie and Trixie. Julie bought the tickets for us and I drive, I don’t drink so it works out well, probably better for me, Thanks for the ticket Julie. Now I was going to get to Julies around 7:15 and we would have a little bit of time to talk before we leave as we can’t get in till 8pm. Now I started getting ready at 4:30 as I wanted to take my time and enjoy getting ready. I can only imagine this is how girls feel getting ready for a big dance, I really wish I had had time to go get a new red dress. It really was so wonderful getting ready and making sure I looked my best.

I got to Julies a little after 7 and they were both ready and looking beautiful, they always look great but there is just something about red I love. Now we talked a little as we watched the Blazer game. Now it was Trixie that realized the Blazers were playing at home tonight in the Moda Center which is right next door to the Coliseum where the Red Dress Party is. This means Parking will be bad so we decided to take and UBER to the party. Now this was nice as we got dropped off right in front and as it was lightly raining it was nice as we didn’t take coats. Now we only had to wait in line about 5 minutes till they started letting us in.

Now this is a wonderful event as it is a charity event so the money goes to good cause and the ticket price covers everything, food and drink of course I don’t drink but I got all the soda pop I wanted. now our tickets got us in at 8 and the general admission tickets got in at 9 so we had a little time to look around before it got busy plus we had the VIP area where we had food and the lines were not as long. Now they had an issue with food and as such we couldn’t get in to the VIP area till 9 which was a little sad, you would have thought they would have had things better prepared so we walked around and checked things out.

Now this is the best place to people watch as you will see 100’s if not 1000’s of red dresses and they are all different in some little way, well I did see 2 couples with the same dress but I think they planned it that way. Now we did get some pictures tonight. I wanted a picture with the crowd behind me, a sea of red dresses as far as you could see. Now Danika also showed up she came and met the group on Wednesday night in her male mode but tonight she got out as her female self. It was great she could make it. Now when they finally did get the food out it was really good and this really was the first year, they had problems

After 9 it really did get busy, it was hard to move around and the party took up the whole basement floor of the coliseum. Now I did see one lady here I know, as a matter of fact she has been at all 5 I have gone to and I am as I know she will be there as she works there I keep an eye out for her and just kind of look the other way when I see her. Now as I said this is a wonderful place to people watch as there are some dresses that are over the top, some are really skimpy and sexy and yes this is for everyone so there were even men there just wearing a red dress and everyone gets along wonderfully no matter who you are. We didn’t do any dancing tonight but we had a wonderful time and got some wonderful pictures. This is one of my favorites, Julie and I look so awesome together in this picture. Can you tell how much fun we are having by our smiles?

We stayed till about 11:30 before we called it a night. Now as we were leaving it was really raining and as I said we didn’t bring coats so we ran as quick as we could to the covered area while we waited for our UBER home and we did get a little wet. There were several girls waiting here and watching the road for their ride. We had to wait about 10 minutes before our ride showed up. Now we had to get from the covered area to our ride and it was about 100 yards in the poring rain. Once again, we walked (almost ran) in our heals for the car. I think it is the first time I have ran in heels and yes, we got wet and yes it was cold. Luckily our driver was nice enough to turn the heat way up.

We got back to Julies house a little after midnight. It was such a fun night out. Thanks, so much Julie for inviting me, you are awesome and one of my best friends. It was sad to see the night come to an end and say goodbye. By the time I got home and ready for bed it was 1 am, a late night but so worth it.

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May 21, 2019 Posted by | Red Dress | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Wednesday night dinner at Mother’s Bistro

It is Wednesday and that means Wednesday night dinner with my friends. I am really looking forward to it as I have missed the last few weeks but mostly as Julie is back in town and I will get to see her again. I got home late about 5:15 so it would be a rush to get ready. Now I get asked why I like being Susan, mostly it just feels right, I am way more relaxed and comfortable as Susan. Now this confuses people sometimes as they figure this means that I want to transition and that is not the case as o don’t feel my body is wrong and I still need my male side. I need both sides. I compare it to camping, I like to go camping and I feel so relaxed and comfortable when I do but I don’t want to live in the woods. I will admit Susan is a big part of my life but she is not all of who I am. Now I have met a lot of girls and the one thing I tell them all is figure out who you are and don’t let anyone tell you who you are or who you should be. It took me many years to figure that out and I have some wonderful friend that have helped and supported me in my journey. It took me about 45 minutes to get ready and I was on my way.

I got downtown about 6:30 and parked about a block away, it still amazes me how easily I get out of my car as Susan. I got to Mothers Bistro and Julie had just got there, it was so awesome to see her again. I had Texted Cassandra to see if she would come but it turns out she is in Las Vegas again. We got our table and waited for others to show up, of course I had to get a picture with Julie. We talked a little and caught up as we waited for others to show up.

It wasn’t long and others started to show up, we were going to have a good turnout tonight as we had 8 of us you posted they would be here. We really are getting good turnouts for our Wednesday night dinner. Barb and Melissa were the first to show up, followed by Rickie and her wife Judy, Jeanie, Stacylee, Danika and one more girl so we had 9 of us tonight. We all talked for a while before we ordered dinner.

We had a wonderful dinner and even better conversation. I got a good chance to talk with Stacylee, she is new to our group and she has a lot of questions. She is still figuring out this part of her life and who she is. Now we all have a lot in common but we are also all a little different and that means what is right for me may not be right for her. It was nice to talk with her.


It was such a wonderful night with my friends I really have met some incredible people as Susan and I can’t imagine my life without them. It was a wonderful night out with my friends and it was so sad to see it come to an end. It was about 9:30 when we called it a night. now I will see Julie again on Saturday night as Julie, Trixie and I are going to the red dress party in Portland, I think Melissa and her wife are also going. It will be so much fun and such a wonderful place to people watch.

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May 18, 2019 Posted by | Dinner out | , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Another Saturday night as Susan at the Escape.

It is Saturday and yes, another night out as Susan. Now I got home late today about 4 so I would have to rush to get ready as I like getting to the Escape early. Now it is a hot day today upper 80’s so I decided to wear my white and black summer dress, here is a picture from Diva Las Vegas of me in the dress I am wearing tonight. I was ready and on my way by 5 and got to the Escape about 5:30. Now there parking lot was full so I had to park on the street but it was a nice sunny day so I didn’t mind the short walk. I did bring my sweater as on hot days they sometimes have the air conditioner on low and it can get chilly inside. I got my normal table and ordered dinner and then caught up on some e-mails I have been behind on. I also posted my blog from Last Saturday which I wrote earlier in the day, yes it was a week late as have been really busy the last couple weeks.

Now I posted in the group I would be here but got no replies but I am sure someone will show up. Michele was the first to show up a little after 6. We talked a little, I really do enjoy this part of Susan as my male side is not big on just sitting and talking. We also talked about our group the Rose City T-girls as we have been getting some newer members out which is nice but we also have a few that are having a hard time with that first step out in public. I have been in touch with one who almost made it out a few weeks ago but at the very last minute couldn’t get out of her car so I gave her my cell # and told her to text me and I would come out and meet her at her car so she didn’t have to walk in alone. Well I hadn’t herd from her so I texted her to make sure she had my number and she texted me back that she just couldn’t o it again tonight. Now I am not putting her name in as I don’t wish to make her feel bad as there is nothing to feel bad about this. I just want to bring this out that it is really common. Walking out into the public as your female self the first time is really hard and I would say almost all of us have gone through it. I myself drove to Embers 3 time and sat in my car for an hour and then drove home never leaving my car. It was the 4th time and again I couldn’t do it and after an hour I was just getting ready to leave when another t-girls saw me in the car and tapped on my window to see if I was going in. had she not done that and showed me that kindness I would have gone home that night also. If you are struggling with going out your first time it is nothing to be ashamed, it is a big step. Reach out to someone for help if you can and if you are going out and know someone who is having trouble with going out be supportive and offer help, they will never forget you. I still remember Lorie the girl who helped me and that was I don’t know 20 years ago and I only saw her a few times going out. She got me out and Alice helped make me feel better about going out and I owe them so much. I will be in touch with her and hope I can help her as I know once she can get that first time behind her it will become easier.

Michele and I played a couple games of pool, I lost both but I at least made it a close game. We had another girl showed up so her and Michele played some pool, they are both better than I am at pool but I still enjoy it when I play. Karaoke started at 9 and it got loud again, I think they had the volume a little louder than normal so it really was hard to talk. About 9:30 Patty and her girlfriend showed up, Patty is one of our newer members and yes, her girlfriend is supportive. It was my first time meeting her girlfriend as the couple other times she has come out I couldn’t make it. She seems really nice and it is awesome she is supportive as it is not the normal reaction. We do however have quite a few wives and girlfriends of members who are supportive which is awesome. Coming out to someone is always a hard decision as you don’t know how they will take it and once it is out you can’t go back. Some girls say you should be completely honest and always tell, I don’t believe this is a black and white issue. Yes, if you are on hormones and planning on transitioning then yes you have to tell. If that is not your life course then there are choices you and only you can make. Don’t let someone else tell you how to live your life and who you have to tell. My view and only my view are if it doesn’t affect the person they don’t need to know. People I work with don’t need to know; I don’t plan on showing up at work as Susan. I look at it this way, I don’t talk golf with friends who don’t play golf, same with Baseball, fishing, hunting or guns, yes these are some of my interests but I have friends who don’t like or do these things. Did get a selfie tonight.

Lauri showed up at 10 so we had 5 of us tonight. It was a fun night with my friends. Now I did once again stay out latter then I planned, once again it was about 11:30 when I paid my bill and went home. I am not use to being up this late but it is good as next Saturday will be another late night as next Saturday is Portland’s Red Dress Party and I am going with Julie and Trixie and I am looking forward to it as it is a fun night and a wonderful place to people watch but most importantly is I will get to see Julie again. She has been out of town since last fall and I have missed her. As Susan I have a lot of wonderful close friends But Julie and Cassandra are my 2 best friends, they probably know the most about me in total of anyone.

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May 12, 2019 Posted by | Escape Bar & Grill | , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Saturday night at the escape.

Okay my blog is a week late but better late then never. Now before I get into my blog, I have a little side note. I try really hard to keep politics and Religion out of my blog but every once in a while, I have to speak up. I don’t care what religion you are, politics, race, gender of preference, violence is never okay. There have been attacks on people just for having a different opinion. This is a video of an 85-year-old man who is a prolife supporter being attacked and beaten by a young man just for expressing his opinion. Now again I don’t care what side of the debate you are on but attacking someone, knocking them on the ground and kicking them is wrong and there is no excuse for assaulting an 85-year-old man. I don’t have to agree with you but I will stand with you and defend your right to express your opinion. Years ago, it was members of the LGBT community that were attacked for being who they are and expressing themselves and it was wrong. If we want people to accept us and by accept us, I mean allow us to be who we are without fear of being attacked then we have to stand up and condemn violence against everyone. We can have different opinions, lobby for changes to the laws, and even speak out against each other but we can never ever use violence against one another.

Okay, back to Last Saturday’s night out. I started getting ready early as I wanted to get to the Escape early. I posted in the group I would be there but I never really know who will all show up. I got to the Escape a little after 5 and went in. now getting here this early, they are not really busy and parking is easier. I got my normal table and got out my computer and ordered dinner. Now this gives me a little time on my own as I wait for others to show up. Now Jennifer was the first to show up, she is one of our newer members and have only been going out the last few months. It was great to see her again and this gave us a chance to talk before others showed up which is always nice.

It was a little after 7 and a couple other girls showed up so once again, we had 4 of us tonight, it really is a fun night out. Now I admit it is the same thing every week but it is also different as there are always new or different people here and that makes it fun. I had a nice dinner, good times with my friends and got to listen to some good music. Now about 10 Lauri showed up, it really is wonderful the friends I have made as Susan, I really am blessed with wonderful friends. I stayed a little later tonight as the last couple weeks my Susan time has been limited to just Saturday nights so I have to make the most of it. Now I am hoping o start getting out more, Wednesday night dinners and my Sunday Starbucks time and yes even the Red Dress Party which is coming up. It was about 11:30 when I called it a night and left for home.

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May 11, 2019 Posted by | Escape Bar & Grill | , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Going to the Escape.

It is Saturday again and yes, I get to enjoy some time as Susan tonight at the Escape, yes, my normal Saturday night. now I write a lot about going to the Escape and I am glad for those of you that read my blog and I am happy to share my life as Susan with you but the main reason for my blog is to document my life as Susan, my record for me of what I have done.

I started getting ready early as I wanted to get out as early as I could as I probably won’t get out till next Saturday, plus I was looking forward to wearing my new dress. I was ready a little before 5 and on my way. I got there early a little after 5 and went in. I did get a selfie in the car before I went in. Now tonight I went with a different lipstick, kind of a dark Purple. I am not liking to color on me, I think it is a little to dark. I got my normal table and ordered dinner, yes, my normal hamburger. They have really good food her but their hamburgers are really good. It is nice to get here a little early and have some time for myself as I have been behind on doing my blogs lately. I took the tie and wrote my blog from Wednesday night dinner. I had a nice dinner as I waited to see if others would show up.

Michelle was the first to show up, it was good to see her as I have not seen her since Diva Las Vegas. We started talking and yes most of it was about Diva Las Vegas. It is hard to believe that it has been a month since Diva Las Vegas. I also got Michelle to take a couple pictures of me in my new dress. I always love it when I have a new dress to wear, there is just something special about a pretty new dress or outfit.

Now it was a slow night here, not many people showed up, it was after 7 and a couple other girls from our group showed up so we had 4 of us here tonight. It was nice to see them also and get to talk to them. I really do enjoy my time out with friends, as when I am Susan, I am way more social. We had a great time just sitting and talking of course a couple of our girls played some pool. My Saturday nights are pretty much the same but they are really fun and relaxing and just what I need.

A little after 9 it got a little busier as karaoke started and that is usually when most people show up. Now it gets loud when karaoke starts so a little hard to talk but still fun to listen to some of the people sing

Around 10 Lauri showed up so we had 5 here tonight. It was a relaxing night out with friends as always. I stayed till a little after 11 before I paid my bill and left for home.

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May 4, 2019 Posted by | Escape Bar & Grill | , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment


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